One of the skills that men have lost is the ability to flirt effectively. For the majority of men, flirting either consists of hiding in a corner, hoping a woman will notice him, to being brash and using dumb “pick up lines.” However, there is a middle ground that is best here – not too shy, but not too obnoxious. Here are four flirting tips for men that will take your game to the next level:
-1- The key is to make her laugh. Sense of humor is an important quality in men – survey after survey of women confirm this. If you’re not a naturally funny person, work on it – it’s a skill that can be improved.
-2- At the same time, don’t be afraid to tease her. If you can challenge her and make her laugh at the same time, you are golden. Obviously, you need to read lightly here – you don’t want to ‘neg’ her too hard, otherwise you are just being insulting.
-3- Be playful. David DeAngelo, for instance, recommends that you treat a woman like a bratty friend – this puts you in a position of power, plus it’s also funny and playful – the important flirting tips mentioned above!
-4- Practice makes perfect. The more you go out into the field and put this advice into play, the better you’ll get at it naturally. You may think you’re “bad” at something just because that’s the way you are, but in 99% of the cases you’re ‘bad’ at something simply because you haven’t done it enough. So get out there!
Don’t forget that you can flirt “online” too – check out a great and free online dating site.